15 April 2023

#615 - Thomas DeLauer - Stop Making These Mistakes When Intermittent Fasting

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Insights & moments

The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Hot Take· 1

Hot Take40:00

The Dark Truth About High Performers

DeLauer shares a provocative insight: high performers are often more miserable than average people. Success frequently comes from running away from pain, not toward a positive vision, making internal fulfillment rare.

Top performers are often deeply unhappy despite outward success.
Success is often driven by trauma or avoidance, not passion.
Many are running from fear, not toward a goal.
Self-love scores among elites average only 5–6 out of 10.

“High performers are more miserable by a million miles.”
Thomas DeLauer · 40:30

#high-performance#mental-health#success#self-love

Explainer· 4

Explainer00:00

Why Intermittent Fasting Is About Mastery, Not Just Weight Loss

Thomas DeLauer explains that the greatest benefit of intermittent fasting isn't body composition or cognitive gains, but the psychological element of mastery over one's impulses. By abstaining from food, individuals gain a sense of control that often translates into other areas of life.

The core benefit of intermittent fasting is the sense of mastery from abstaining.
Food is a constant drug-like stimulus, making abstinence difficult and meaningful.
This self-control can positively influence other life domains.
Social norms encourage constant eating, making structured fasting a form of rebellion.

“The biggest benefit to me with intermittent fasting is not body composition changes... it's the element of Mastery that comes with it.”
Thomas DeLauer · 00:00

#intermittent-fasting#self-mastery#psychology#discipline

Explainer27:30

How I Gave Myself Type 2 Diabetes

DeLauer explains how years of poor diet and overeating led to clinically diagnosed type 2 diabetes, with fasting glucose levels spiking to 144 mg/dL. He reversed it through lifestyle changes but still deals with long-term hormonal consequences.

Developed type 2 diabetes with fasting glucose over 140 mg/dL.
Caused by years of caloric surplus and junk food consumption.
Took seven years to normalize metabolic markers.
Still suffers from lower testosterone due to damage during critical years.

“I did make myself type 2 diabetic... in a two-year period of time.”
Thomas DeLauer · 27:30

#type-2-diabetes#metabolic-health#insulin#long-term-consequences

Explainer70:00

What Real High-Intensity Interval Training Looks Like

DeLauer clarifies that true high-intensity interval training (HIIT) involves near-maximal effort for 15–25 seconds, not steady one-minute intervals. The recovery time should match the effort, making it more effective than generic 'Tabata-style' workouts.

True HIIT: 15–25 seconds at near-max intensity, not full minutes.
Recovery should be as long as needed to repeat the effort.
One-minute-on/one-minute-off is not true HIIT.
Intensity matters more than duration for metabolic benefits.

“If you're able to hold maximum intensity for one minute, you're insane.”
Thomas DeLauer · 70:30

#HIIT#interval-training#workout-structure#fitness

Explainer79:00

Why Diet Diversity Beats Elimination for Bloating

DeLauer argues that bloating is often due to gut dysbiosis from lack of dietary diversity. Instead of restrictive diets, he advocates rotating fibers and foods to support a balanced microbiome.

Bloating often stems from lack of gut microbiome diversity.
Eating the same foods repeatedly worsens imbalance.
Rotating vegetables, fibers, and proteins helps recalibrate the gut.
Keto helped his wife by resetting her gut, not just eliminating carbs.

“It's not suggesting that everyone goes out eats a bunch of fiber... but diversity is key.”
Thomas DeLauer · 80:30

#gut-health#bloating#dysbiosis#diet-diversity

Story· 4

Story02:00

Running Marathons at Age 11: A Childhood Shaped by Extremes

DeLauer shares how his mother's adventurous lifestyle led him to run a marathon at age 11. Her philosophy of including him in her activities meant he grew up doing extreme physical challenges, normalizing what others saw as extraordinary.

Ran first marathon at age 11 because his mother did it.
Grew up in Sonoma, often running near wineries with public encouragement.
His mom's mindset: 'If you want to hang out with me, you do what I do.'
These experiences shaped his identity and relationship with physical endurance.

“I ran my first marathon when I was 11... my mom would run marathons so I would run marathons too.”
Thomas DeLauer · 02:30

#childhood#running#endurance#parenting

Story08:30

OCD, Hair-Pulling, and Childhood Anxiety

DeLauer opens up about struggling with OCD as a child, including obsessive light-switch flipping and hair-pulling due to anxiety. These behaviors were tied to fears about his mother's safety and contributed to social challenges.

Had OCD by age 9, including ritualistic light-switch behavior.
Believed stepping on floorboards wrong would cause harm to his mother.
Pulled hair out due to anxiety, leading to bald spots and bullying.
Was prescribed benzodiazepines at 13 but didn't take them regularly.

“I had to flip light switches... if I stepped on the wrong [floorboard], my mom would die.”
Thomas DeLauer · 09:00

#OCD#mental-health#anxiety#childhood-trauma

Story24:00

How I Gained 300 Pounds and Lost Myself

DeLauer recounts how a 'bulk gone wrong' spiraled into severe weight gain, reaching nearly 300 pounds. He reflects on this as a period of self-sabotage, driven by stress, identity loss, and disordered eating patterns.

Gained weight rapidly in his early 20s, peaking near 300 pounds.
Started as a muscle-building attempt but devolved into junk food binges.
Wife's brother mocked his tater tot binge, signaling a turning point.
Realized he was on a path similar to 'My 600-lb Life' subjects.

“I was totally like Eric Cartman in Beefcake... I was like 'weight gain 5000'.”
Thomas DeLauer · 25:00

#weight-gain#self-sabotage#eating-disorder#mental-health

Story32:00

How Becoming a Father Changed Everything

The birth of his son, shortly after his father's death, triggered a profound shift in DeLauer's life. He moved from seeking external validation to focusing on being a present, emotionally available father.

Son's birth and father's death happened within days of each other.
Had a dream of his father handing the baby to him the night before labor.
Realized he wanted to be a present father, unlike his own dad.
Shifted focus from personal validation to legacy and family.

“I had a dream where my son was born... my dad's hands reached out and handed the baby over to him.”
Thomas DeLauer · 34:30

#fatherhood#grief#life-purpose#emotional-growth

Tool· 1

Tool77:00

Use Salt to Kill Sugar Cravings

DeLauer shares a personal hack: when craving something sweet, consuming salt or electrolytes often eliminates the urge. He believes this may be due to neurological confusion between sweet and salty signals in the brain.

Craving sugar? Try salt or electrolytes first.
NSD neurons in the hindbrain may confuse sweet and salty signals.
Anecdotal evidence shows this works quickly, though temporarily.
Mechanistic data supports the idea, but more research is needed.

“Having some salt actually kills that craving... it feels like that just scratches the itch so quick.”
Thomas DeLauer · 77:30

#cravings#electrolytes#neurology#diet-hacks