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30 December 2021

End Of Year Review: 2021's Lessons, Hacks & Fails - #416

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The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Hot Take· 2

Hot Take36:00

It Doesn't Get Easier, You Just Get Better

Reflecting on business and training, one host argues that success doesn't remove problems — it just changes their nature. A £100k business has different problems than a £10m one, and 200kg on a barbell feels exactly as hard as 100kg did at a lower level. Citing Sam Harris and powerlifter Ed Coan, the point is that comfort at any level is a choice to stop pushing, not a reward for having arrived.

  • Bigger goals bring different problems, not fewer problems
  • Sam Harris: people wrongly expect a day when all their problems are solved
  • Ed Coan's answer to 'what's it like to squat 1000lb': exactly like squatting your own one-rep max
  • You can coast at any level of achievement by staying within your capacity

it doesn't get easier, you just get better

36:00

people presume that one day they're going to have fixed all of their problems

37:00
#mindset#business growth#training#expectations
Hot Take1:23:00

Don't Look Up, Climate Change, and the AI Control Problem

Discussing the Netflix film Don't Look Up, one host connects its message about ignored existential warnings to AI risk rather than climate change, arguing AI is a more urgent version of the same problem because it's invisible and potentially irreversible. They call for centralized oversight of AI research similar to controls on nuclear weapons and synthetic biology, warning that commercial incentives currently favor building AI first and fixing safety problems later.

  • Don't Look Up read as a satire of ignored large-scale warnings, applied here to AI rather than climate
  • AI risk framed as worse than climate change because it's invisible and potentially irreversible
  • Comparison to oversight regimes for nuclear weapons and synthetic biology/genome sequencing
  • The AI control problem (ensuring AI does what we want) needs solving before capability advances further
  • Current incentives reward shipping AI first and addressing safety problems after the fact

why don't we if if that's the case if we're concerned about climate change, what the [expletive] about artificial intelligence? That's one that you literally…

1:24:30

the control problem which is how do you make sure that the AI does the thing that you want it to do and not turn…

1:26:30
#ai safety#existential risk#film#technology policy

Explainer· 3

Explainer12:30

Choose What You're Going to Fail At

Drawing on Greg McKeown's Essentialism and Oliver Burkeman's 4,000 Weeks, the hosts argue that focusing on one goal inevitably means other areas of life slip, and the trick is to consciously pick which ones you're willing to let slide rather than fighting FOMO by trying to do everything at once. One host applied this directly by accepting a drop in gym condition for a year while rehabbing an Achilles and lower back injury.

  • Focusing attention on one goal always pulls attention away from others
  • FOMO about slipping areas pushes people back into trying to do everything, which stalls real progress
  • Oliver Burkeman's framing: decide in advance what you're going to fail at
  • Example: accepting worse gym condition for a year to properly rehab an injury for long-term training gains

you need to choose what you're going to fail at because a lot of the time when you decide to focus your attention on something,…

13:00

You cannot overestimate the unimportance of practically everything.

14:30
#essentialism#goal-setting#focus#prioritization
Explainer25:00

Why Hitting Your Financial Goal Never Feels Different

The hosts discuss hedonic adaptation using Morgan Housel's The Psychology of Money and Ben Hardy's The Gap and the Gain — every time you hit a financial or personal milestone you move the goalposts further away, so the feeling never actually changes. They cite Ali Abdaal and Steven Bartlett both describing bigger milestones (a million subscribers, a company sale) feeling flatter than smaller earlier wins.

  • Morgan Housel: winning the game means learning to stop moving the goalposts
  • Ben Hardy's Gap and the Gain: chasing goals is like running toward the horizon, it never gets closer
  • Ali Abdaal felt more excited hitting 500 subscribers than 1 million
  • Steven Bartlett was less excited selling Social Chain than finding £19 behind a chicken shop seat
  • The fix: celebrate small, deliberate wins along the way rather than waiting for the big number

The number one thing that you need to do to win the game is to stop moving the goalposts further away from you.

28:30

every single step that you take, your goal moves the same distance away from you

29:00
#hedonic adaptation#goal-setting#money psychology#mindset
Explainer44:00

Why COVID Broke Everyone's Politics

Referencing Jonathan Haidt's The Righteous Mind and a doctor called ZDoggMD, the hosts explain how six moral 'taste buds' (care/harm, fairness/cheating, loyalty/betrayal, authority/subversion, sanctity/degradation, liberty/oppression) explain why COVID pushed people on both political extremes into surprisingly similar-sounding conspiratorial positions. The takeaway is that extreme views often signal in-group loyalty rather than genuine belief.

  • People see reality through moral lenses that block clear thinking, per ZDoggMD
  • Haidt's six moral foundations each get triggered differently by COVID debates
  • John C. Bogle: extreme ideological views signal loyalty to your side and threat to the opposing side
  • Extreme positions turn a factual question into a loyalty-vs-betrayal choice
  • Nobody should be 100% certain on complex trade-off issues; the real range is closer to 99.9% vs 0.01%

people only see things through their own moral lens gives you a bit more compassion for how people can get to such wacky conclusions

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a lot of ridiculous ideological views... is a signal of loyalty to your own side and a signal of threat displayed to the opposing side

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#psychology#politics#covid#moral foundations theory

Story· 1

Story33:30

Nimsdai Purja's 14 Peaks: Redefining What's Possible

The hosts discuss the Netflix documentary 14 Peaks about Nimsdai Purja, a former Gurkha and UK special forces soldier who climbed all fourteen of the world's 8,000m peaks in under eight months, shattering a record that previously stood at just over six years — including summiting one peak with a severe hangover and three peaks in 48 hours.

  • Purja climbed all 14 of the world's 8,000m+ peaks in 8 months, versus a previous record of six-plus years
  • He summited one peak while severely hungover and three peaks in 48 hours
  • Other elite climbers were reportedly stunned by the feat, calling him a 'complete freak'
  • Used as a contrast to a much smaller UK hike (Helvellyn, ~950m) that left a host wiped out for days

he does all 14 in 8 months... he does one of them on a with a stonking hangover... then he does three of them in…

34:00
#mountaineering#documentary#mental toughness#extreme performance

Tool· 4

Tool1:04:30

Replace Dead Time With a 'Holding Pattern' Activity

To cut down on reflexive phone-checking during small gaps (queues, waiting for exports), one host started keeping a Kindle on his desk as a default activity instead of reaching for his phone. Another shares a client's trick of relocating the Kindle app to where Instagram used to be on their phone, once a week, to keep breaking the automatic reach for social apps.

  • Most 'dead time' screen habits happen in short waiting moments, not long browsing sessions
  • Keeping a physical Kindle on the desk creates a default non-phone activity for downtime
  • Moving the Kindle app to Instagram's home-screen slot once a week disrupts the automatic reach
  • The unsolved gap: no easy holding-pattern substitute exists for phone-only situations like queues

a different holding pattern activity. We all have those moments where we're waiting for 90 seconds for something. What is it that we default to?

1:04:30
#screen time#habits#productivity tools#phone addiction
Tool1:15:00

2021's Favorite Life Hacks: Creatine Tablets and Clear Whey

The hosts share their two favorite supplement-related life hacks of the year: switching to micronized creatine capsules instead of powder to eliminate the friction of remembering to scoop creatine into a shake, and switching to a clear whey isolate over traditional milky protein shakes.

  • Creatine tablets remove the daily friction of remembering to dose powder in a shake
  • Myprotein's micronized creatine capsules are easier to swallow than standard uncoated tablets
  • Clear whey isolate was rated the best-tasting protein product either host has used
  • Framed as evidence that small friction-removal tweaks beat willpower for consistency

use creatine tablets to avoid ever dosing your creatine. Like it's an absolute game changer.

1:15:00

the second one is Clear Whey... It's the best protein that I've ever found in my entire life

1:16:30
#supplements#training#life hacks#consistency
Tool1:18:00

Switching to Spotify's 'My Episodes' Queue

One host switched from Apple Podcasts to Spotify specifically for its 'My Episodes' feature, which lets you queue up recommended episodes across shows and jump between them without losing your place, unlike a strict linear queue. He also calls out that Spotify has just enabled star ratings for podcasts.

  • Spotify's search across shows and episodes is described as far better than competing apps
  • 'My Episodes' keeps your place across many shows so you can skip around instead of abandoning episodes
  • Spotify recently enabled 5-star podcast reviews, separate from Apple's review ecosystem
  • Spotify subscriber counts don't correlate with Apple Podcasts numbers — they're fully separate audiences

the my episodes feature is great cuz you the search feature on Spotify is second to none

1:18:00
#podcasts#spotify#productivity tools#content consumption
Tool1:12:30

Sam Harris's Waking Up App: The 'Moments' Feature

One host highlights two features of Sam Harris's meditation app Waking Up: a daily guided meditation and 'Moments,' which sends randomized push notifications throughout the day with a one-minute audio prompt (e.g. reflecting briefly on death) to reset perspective mid-task.

  • Waking Up includes a daily structured meditation session
  • 'Moments' fires random push notifications with a 1-minute audio prompt during the day
  • Prompts can feel morbid (e.g. thinking about death) but are designed to shrink the perceived stakes of daily stress
  • Users can set a time window for when Moments can trigger, but not the exact frequency

it prompts you with a push notification to listen to like a 1-minute audio to just help you like improve the general mindfulness in your…

1:13:30
#meditation#apps#mindfulness#life hacks

Takeaway· 2

Takeaway56:00

Why the Person at the Top Gets Paid the Most

The hosts describe the CEO or business owner's real job as aggregating messy, mixed qualitative and quantitative information and outputting a single decision — a 'hard-to-replicate complex decision engine.' They connect this to Jeff Bezos's claim that he's essentially paid for one to three high-quality decisions a day, and observe that overworking as a founder often makes output worse, not better.

  • Jeff Bezos reportedly sees himself as paid for 1-3 high-quality decisions a day
  • A founder's best weeks were often ones spent offline or working less
  • CEOs are hard to replace because their skill is deeply specific to one business, market and moment
  • Constant busywork (inbox, admin) crowds out the few decisions that actually move things forward

he considers himself to be paid to make like one to three decisions a day... one to three high quality decisions a day

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they're a hard-to-replicate complex decision engine

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#leadership#business#decision-making#founder mindset
Takeaway1:00:30

Screen Time Fell in Texas Without Any Willpower

One host admits failing his screen-time reduction goal all year through direct willpower tactics (notification blocks, grayscale mode), but noticed screen time dropped on its own while away in Texas simply because his surrounding life gave him less reason to look at his phone. The takeaway: building an environment and social life that naturally crowds out the bad habit beats brute-forcing it through discipline.

  • A year of screen-time discipline (notifications off, grayscale, phone out of the bedroom) still failed
  • Screen time dropped naturally while living a different, more socially engaged life in Texas
  • CrossFitters get and stay fit without a deliberate training plan simply because they love the sport
  • The lesson generalises beyond phones: outcome goals are often better served by changing your environment than by forcing a new habit

focus on building a life that creates the habits you want

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they have created a life that builds the habits that they want

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#habits#screen time#environment design#behavior change