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Jason Stapleton05 March 2020

How To Survive The 21st Century - Jason Stapleton - #148

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Myth Buster· 1

Myth Buster34:30

Get-rich-quick trading always gives it back

Chris introduces the Wall Street Bets subreddit and its wild market bets and penny-stock pumps. Stapleton, an ex-trader, notes penny-stock pump-and-dumps are nothing new, and warns that without a proven, consistently-traded plan you're destined to fail. People only post their winners; the losers, if shown, would reveal a very different P&L, and almost everyone gives the money back.

  • Penny-stock pump-and-dumps are old, not a new phenomenon
  • Winners get posted; losers stay hidden, distorting the picture
  • The brain craves unscheduled rewards, which keeps people chasing
  • Without a proven, daily-executed trading plan you're destined to fail

you're only posting your winners... you're not throwing out the losers

Jason Stapleton · 35:30
#trading#investing#risk

Hot Take· 4

Hot Take05:30

Lie to yourself about your potential, not your present

Stapleton says change happens first in the mind: you need a vision of where you're going before you can move toward it. He distinguishes healthy from unhealthy self-deception, he won't lie about his current skills or situation, but he deliberately lies to himself about where he could be. That aspirational vision is the destination that pulls action forward.

  • Change happens first in the mind via a clear vision
  • Be honest about your current skills and situation
  • Deliberately 'lie' about your potential and future ceiling
  • The vision gives you a destination to aim for

I don't lie to myself about where I'm at right now... but I do lie to myself about where I could be

Jason Stapleton · 05:30
#vision#mindset#self-talk
Hot Take14:30

We live in the greatest period in human history

Stapleton's first lesson for clients is that today is the best time ever to be alive. He contrasts not being able to video-call his wife from Iraq in 2005, and having to make early videos downloadable because people couldn't stream them, with streaming a presentation to 600 people over cell phones today. His mindset of being surrounded by abundance and opportunity is, he believes, a big reason for his success.

  • It has never been cheaper or easier to build the life you want
  • Technology that was impossible 15 years ago is now trivial
  • An abundance mindset frames the world as full of opportunity to harness
  • How you interpret the world drives your outcomes

I'm surrounded by abundance I'm surrounded by opportunity and all I got to do is figure out how to harness that

Jason Stapleton · 16:00
#abundance#optimism#mindset
Hot Take39:00

46 million US jobs will be obsolete within 20 years

Stapleton's core thesis is that we're in the greatest economic evolution ever, and the timeline between major transitions keeps tightening. He predicts roughly 46 million American jobs become unnecessary over 20 years as automation and AI take over, with 'AI' meaning everyday things like self-driving cars, not sci-fi robots. Repetitive labor, factory work, and low-to-middle-class jobs are most exposed.

  • Time between economic revolutions is getting tighter
  • About 46 million US jobs could become obsolete in 20 years
  • The relevant AI is mundane automation like self-driving cars
  • Two-thirds of a shrinking middle class actually move up into prosperity

you're not gonna need 46 million jobs in America over the next 20 years because either automation or artificial intelligence will take over those jobs

Jason Stapleton · 39:30
#automation#ai#future-of-work
Hot Take55:30

Wealth is liberty: your freedom is tied to your mobility

Stapleton argues freedom is more directly tied to your ability to move than to anything government does. When places collapse, it's people with money, not the poor, who can leave. He points to his own fully transferable business, a camera, laptop, and internet connection let him relocate anywhere overnight, so he isn't worried about political outcomes. His advice to libertarians: focus on fixing yourself, not the government.

  • Wealth buys mobility, and mobility is real freedom
  • In crises, only those with money can actually leave
  • A location-independent business makes you resilient to instability
  • Fix yourself first, then become an example worth following

wealth is Liberty wealth is freedom and if you have it then then you are free

Jason Stapleton · 56:30
#freedom#wealth#sovereignty

Explainer· 4

Explainer09:30

The Lindy Effect: be wary of recently produced content

Chris explains the Lindy Effect: for non-perishable things like books, the longer something has survived, the longer it's likely to last. A book around for 50 years may last another 70. The implication is caution about the roughly 99% of what we consume that was produced in the last 24 hours, versus seminal work like James Clear's Atomic Habits that will stay relevant for a century.

  • Lindy applies to non-perishable ideas, not people or food
  • Survival time predicts future longevity
  • Around 99% of what we consume was produced in the last 24 hours
  • Human nature doesn't change, so old sales copy still teaches today

we should probably be a little bit more cautious about the stuff that we read or consume which has been... produce recently

Chris Williamson · 09:30
#lindy-effect#reading#timeless-ideas
Explainer10:30

Why advertising got boring: people fail safely rather than win with risk

Chris relays Richard Shotton's finding that adverts use fewer new words over time, not because words run out, but because copywriters increasingly play it safe. The quote is that people would rather fail safely than win with risk: an adventurous ad that flops is on your head, while copying competitors gives you cover. Stapleton adds that safe, templated marketing won't get you fired but will never make you rich.

  • Ad agencies increasingly play it safe with templated formats
  • Failing safely protects your job; winning with risk exposes you
  • Everyone copies the same format until it saturates and stops working
  • Doing the opposite of what 90% do is where the upside lives

people would rather fail safely than win with risk

Chris Williamson · 11:00
#marketing#risk#creativity
Explainer15:00

Personal fulfillment through work is a brand-new human privilege

Stapleton points out that for the first time in history, ordinary people get to consider personal fulfillment in their work. Fifty years ago his grandfather never woke up wondering what would fulfill him; his father became a lawyer because that's what was expected. Today nearly everyone has the ability to pursue fulfilling work, which Chris ties to a modern paradox-of-choice crisis of meaning.

  • Fulfillment as a work consideration is historically unprecedented
  • Previous generations worked for survival, not self-actualisation
  • The paradox of choice can itself cause a crisis of purpose
  • There are fewer excuses today for unfulfilling work

for the first time in human history we get to consider personal fulfillment in what we do for work

Jason Stapleton · 15:00
#purpose#work#meaning
Explainer17:00

The dark side of meritocracy: your failures are yours to bear too

Chris cites Alain de Botton: in a meritocracy, if the successes of those who do well are theirs to own, then the failures of those who do badly must also be theirs. It's a difficult pill, but Stapleton embraces it, saying the most liberating stance is to accept responsibility for everything so you retain control over your direction.

  • Meritocracy assigns ownership of both success and failure
  • Owning your failures is a hard but empowering pill to swallow
  • There is now more onus on the individual than 50 years ago
  • Accepting responsibility is framed as liberating, not punishing

if the successes of the people who do well are theirs to bear that means that the failures of people who do badly must be…

Chris Williamson · 17:00
#meritocracy#responsibility#philosophy

Story· 2

Story02:30

Conor McGregor believed it before he'd won anything

Stapleton admires McGregor because his icon-level personality existed long before his results did, back when he was a nobody living in his parents' attic on welfare. That cold, unwavering belief that success was inevitable is, Stapleton argues, necessary for any real achievement. You have to believe in yourself first before anyone else will.

  • McGregor's persona predated his achievements
  • Belief in yourself must come before others believe in you
  • Leading with confidence is a legitimate, virtuous act, not just ego
  • He built himself into an icon worth studying for influence and brand

you have to believe it in yourself first before anybody else will believe it

Jason Stapleton · 03:30
#self-belief#confidence#influence
Story43:30

The auto workers who had 30 years to adapt and didn't

Stapleton uses assembly-line workers as a cautionary tale. From the late 80s, the writing was on the wall that automation would replace factory jobs, giving workers three decades to learn new skills. Instead they put their heads in the sand and trusted unions to protect their wages and pensions. His message: don't wait for the pink slip to start reskilling; the same transition is now coming to many industries.

  • Auto workers had ~30 years of warning about automation
  • They trusted unions instead of building fallback skills
  • The time to reskill is now, not when you're handed a pink slip
  • The same disruption is coming to a multitude of industries

the time to do that is not when they show up with your pink slip that says hey thanks for working here but you've been…

Jason Stapleton · 45:30
#reskilling#automation#career

Tool· 1

Tool59:00

The jailbreak test for spotting your highest-agency friends

Chris shares a thought experiment for identifying high-agency people: imagine you've been wrongfully jailed and have 24 hours to get out, who do you call? The person you'd call is the one with real agency: upward mobility, lateral and orthogonal thinking, robustness. Stapleton agrees that's exactly the mastermind circle you want to surround yourself with.

  • Ask who you'd call to break you out of jail in 24 hours
  • That person embodies agency and resourcefulness
  • High-agency people think laterally and orthogonally
  • Surround yourself with as many jailbreak-capable people as possible

imagine that you were in jail... and you've got 24 hours to get out who do you call... is the one that has the agency

Chris Williamson · 59:00
#agency#network#personal-development

Takeaway· 1

Takeaway01:30

The real money is made when nobody is watching

Stapleton pushes back on the glamorous image of his work, noting the bulk of it is sitting alone writing sales copy and building funnels. The dividends come from the unglamorous grind done in private, not the visible moments on Instagram or stage. Chris agrees, comparing it to a nightclub promoter arguing with managers rather than living the party fantasy.

  • Most high-value work is unglamorous and done alone
  • Dividends are made bunkered down when nobody is looking
  • Every industry has an unavoidable grind behind the visible highlights
  • Even Conor McGregor still has to get up at 3am to change nappies

success happens when nobody's watching

Jason Stapleton · 01:30
#work-ethic#discipline#entrepreneurship