Zack Telander14 October 2021

The Female Orgasm, CrossFit & Vasectomies - Zack Telander - #384

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The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Myth Buster· 1

Myth Buster40:00

Clitoral Orgasms Are Not 'Second-Class'—But Many Women Think They Are

Despite being more reliable and often more pleasurable, orgasms from clitoral stimulation are sometimes viewed as inferior to vaginal orgasms due to cultural myths. This misconception affects women's sexual satisfaction, even though biologically, there's no difference in pleasure quality.

59% of women orgasm during masturbation (clitoral), vs. only ~33% during intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation.
Many women desire purely vaginal orgasms due to societal pressure, despite clitoral stimulation being more effective.
Orgasms from clitoral stimulation are often seen as 'lesser,' even though they feel just as good.
The myth that 'real' sex leads to orgasm distorts women's self-evaluation of their sexuality.

“Orgasms from clitoral stimulation seem to have a second-class quality for some women, while there is no evidence that these orgasms feel less pleasurable.”
Zack Telander · 41:50

#female orgasm#sexual myths#clitoral stimulation#masturbation

Hot Take· 2

Hot Take51:00

CrossFit Is Not a Natural Sport—Elite Athletes Are Likely Using PEDs

Despite marketing itself as a natural fitness competition, elite CrossFit likely involves widespread use of peptides and fast-clearing steroids. A former competitor argues that the extreme physiques and performance levels seen are not achievable naturally, especially at low body fat and high strength output.

Elite female athletes with single-digit body fat and 280lb+ cleans defy natural female physiology.
A top CrossFit competitor's comment accusing widespread PED use was deleted after going viral.
Recovery is paramount in CrossFit, making anabolic use highly advantageous.
No robust drug testing exists, and past positives suggest a culture of concealment.

“The idea that CrossFit is a natural sport at the most elite levels is literally the biggest non-truth told to its audience.”
Zack Telander · 54:50

#crossfit#performance-enhancing-drugs#fitness#doping

Hot Take01:00

Vasectomy Bill Is Satire—But Highlights Real Double Standard

A satirical bill requiring men to get vasectomies by age 40 was introduced to highlight the gendered double standard in reproductive rights. While not meant to pass, it sparks debate about male responsibility and the imbalance in bodily autonomy laws.

Pennsylvania representative Chris Rabb proposed the bill as political satire.
It responds to restrictive abortion laws that target women's bodily autonomy.
Men already face financial responsibility via child support, but not bodily mandates.
The satire forces conversation about equity in reproductive policy.

“As long as the state legislature continues to restrict the reproductive rights of cis women, there should be laws to address the responsibility of men…”
Zack Telander (quoting Chris Rabb) · 01:40

#reproductive rights#vasectomy#gender politics#satire

Explainer· 2

Explainer36:30

Why Women Orgasm More in Relationships Than Hookups

Women are significantly more likely to orgasm in committed relationships compared to casual hookups, due to a combination of emotional intimacy, familiarity with a partner, and specific sexual practices. Research shows that relationship sex includes more clitoral stimulation and mutual focus on female pleasure, while hookups often lack these elements.

Only 11% of women orgasm during first-time hookups, rising to 67% after six+ months in a relationship.
Emotional intimacy and experience with a partner increase attention to female pleasure.
A double standard exists: society questions women's entitlement to pleasure in hookups but supports it in relationships.
More relationship sex includes clitoral stimulation, which greatly increases orgasm likelihood.

“We found that women have orgasms more often in relationships than in hookups.”
Zack Telander · 36:50

#female orgasm#relationships#sexual health#intimacy

Explainer43:00

How Mental Blocks Prevent Female Orgasm

The biggest barrier to female orgasm during penetrative sex isn't physical—it's psychological. Cognitive distraction, performance pressure, and sexual myths create mental interference that prevents women from reaching climax, even when physically stimulated.

Low orgasm frequency is linked to cognitive distraction and suppression of erotic thoughts.
Pressure to perform and internalized sexual myths impair arousal.
The mental block is similar to male performance anxiety—thinking about it makes it harder to achieve.
Emotional intimacy reduces mental barriers and increases orgasm consistency.

“The biggest restriction to girls coming during sex purely through penetrative sex is their own mind.”
Zack Telander · 43:30

#female orgasm#mental health#sexual myths#performance anxiety

Story· 1

Story08:30

Jon Jones Is 'Rotting at His Core,' Says Daniel Cormier

UFC legend Daniel Cormier once warned that Jon Jones was fundamentally incapable of change, calling him 'rotting at his core.' This prediction came true years later when Jones was arrested for assaulting his wife, reinforcing the idea that repeated behavior reflects character, not isolated mistakes.

Daniel Cormier predicted Jones would repeat abusive behavior based on his past.
Jones has a long history of legal and ethical violations, including DUIs and drug violations.
His recent arrest for domestic violence and police confrontation confirms a pattern.
Redemption requires more than fame—it demands accountability and long-term change.

“He's rotting at his core and he will continue. He won't change.”
Zack Telander (quoting Daniel Cormier) · 09:20

#jon jones#ufc#domestic violence#redemption

Q&A· 1

Q&A70:30

Facebook Knew Instagram Harms Young Girls' Mental Health

A Facebook whistleblower revealed internal documents proving the company knew Instagram negatively impacts young girls' body image and increases suicidal ideation. Despite public awareness, the confirmation from within validates long-standing concerns about social media's psychological toll.

Facebook's internal research shows Instagram worsens body image in teen girls.
The platform contributes to increased suicidal thoughts among young users.
Only 9% of Facebook content is in English, yet moderation focuses primarily on it.
The whistleblower leaked 10,000 pages and testified before Congress.

“Instagram actually hurts the body image of young girls and causes increases in suicidal ideation.”
Zack Telander · 71:10

#facebook#mental health#social media#whistleblower