Why advice makes you more of what you already are
George Mack explains the 'advice hyper-responders' problem: guidance never lands evenly. The people who most need a message are the least likely to absorb it, while those who least need it take it most to heart. The result is that advice tends to amplify your existing tendencies rather than correct them.
- Advice distributes unevenly across people
- Guys told 'don't be pushy' who were already overstepping ignored it; the already-nervous ones took it to heart
- Most people need to think more; a small podcast-listening cohort needs the opposite
- You can't easily give an overthinker a bias for action because it works against their nature
“A lot of the time advice makes you more of what you are.”