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Mike Thurston23 November 2020

Traveling, Steroids & How To Build An Audience - Mike Thurston - #249

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Myth Buster· 1

Myth Buster13:30

The physique you see online is the best of 30 photos

Thurston stresses that his Instagram images are him at his absolute best: freshly pumped, perfect lighting, chosen from 20-30 shots by a pro photographer who knows the right angle. He doesn't post when he looks softer, so viewers wrongly assume he holds peak condition year-round.

  • Topless posts are captured post-workout with a pump and ideal lighting
  • One image is picked from 20-30 taken by a professional
  • He simply doesn't share the less flattering days
  • People wrongly assume peak condition is permanent

i'm picking the best picture of like 20 to 30 with a pro photographer

Mike Thurston · 14:00
#social-media#body-image#physique

Hot Take· 3

Hot Take26:30

Do what you're good at, not just what you're passionate about

The pair push back on 'follow your passion.' Thurston argues some people love something they'll never be genetically or naturally good at, so tying self-worth to an outcome guarantees disappointment. Sometimes you should do what you're actually good at, as he discovered coaching turned out to be his real talent.

  • Loving lifting doesn't mean your body will grow the way you want
  • If passion is judged by an outcome you can't reach, only disappointment follows
  • Thurston's real talent turned out to be simplifying complex ideas
  • His coaching skill, not just his physique, grew the channel

a lot of people say oh you should do what you're really passionate about but sometimes you should just do what you're really good at

Mike Thurston · 26:30
#career#passion#self-awareness
Hot Take82:30

Why he never wants people to work for free

Thurston argues that free help is a trap because price is an indicator of quality and effort. He knows that when he trains or films for free he doesn't give full effort, so he insists on paying even for favours, which reliably gets people to put in the extra effort he wants.

  • People who offer to work for free often deliver less
  • Price signals quality and seriousness
  • He always pays, even for favours, to get full effort
  • The valuable hire says they'll cost real money

price is an indicator of quality

Mike Thurston · 82:30
#business#pricing#incentives
Hot Take83:30

His five-year bet: long-form content will win

Thurston and Williamson predict YouTube stays strong despite censorship frustrations, Instagram has peaked, and long-form content will do well. Thurston is wary of TikTok's staying power and its young skew, and reveals he's seriously considering launching a podcast to move to a platform better suited to in-depth conversation.

  • YouTube endures but its censorship is tightening
  • Instagram and Facebook are seen as past their peak
  • Long-form conversation is the growth format
  • Thurston is weighing an all-in podcast launch

i certainly think long form is going to do well

Chris Williamson · 83:30
#platforms#content-strategy#predictions

Explainer· 2

Explainer14:30

Why you can't prove you're a natural lifter

Thurston explains that no universal test exists to prove someone has never taken steroids. Blood work and lie-detector tests can't rule out past use, and once someone is convinced you're on gear, evidence rarely changes their mind. He argues the whole natural-versus-enhanced debate is a pointless energy drain.

  • No test can prove you've never taken steroids at any point
  • Blood work and polygraphs only speak to the present
  • A convinced accuser is almost impossible to persuade
  • Arguing online about it is a huge waste of energy

there is no universal test to prove that someone is natural it doesn't exist

Mike Thurston · 14:30

if somebody is in their head convinced that you take steroids it's almost impossible to change their mind

Mike Thurston · 21:00
#steroids#fitness#credibility
Explainer10:30

Why he mostly stops drinking

Thurston says not drinking has been a game changer because alcohol ruins his productivity, workouts and sleep. He claims more than three drinks can sharply drop testosterone for around three days, and that compounding late nights and hangovers over weeks quietly becomes your whole life.

  • Drinking sabotages productivity, gym sessions and sleep
  • More than three drinks can drop testosterone for ~3 days
  • He usually declines to drink even at social events
  • Small compromises compound into a lost lifestyle

if you drink like more than three drinks it can massively drop your testosterone levels it takes like three days for them to go back…

Mike Thurston · 11:00
#alcohol#recovery#discipline

Story· 4

Story52:30

Escaping the time-for-money trap of personal training

Thurston spent three years training clients for about 30 pounds an hour, giving 100% to five or six people a day and ending up wiped out with a hard cap on income. Switching to a cheaper, scalable product, an ebook or app-based program, unlocked effectively unlimited passive income and was his biggest game changer.

  • One-on-one training capped his income and time
  • He earned roughly 30 pounds/hour and burned out daily
  • A productised program sells unlimited copies while he sleeps
  • The thousands of coaching hours still made him a better creator

the moment i made that transition from training clients to bringing out a cheaper service... you can sell an unlimited amount passive income you make…

Mike Thurston · 52:30
#business#scaling#passive-income
Story46:30

Leaving his best friends to chase bigger goals

Thurston loved his Newcastle friend group but they partied too hard and didn't share his ambitions. Moving to London, alone and with no party scene, his productivity exploded and he gained 300,000 subscribers in his first YouTube year. He frames cutting off a comfortable environment as one of the hardest but most necessary decisions.

  • His Newcastle friends were fun but content to stay put
  • Their drinking and drugs pulled him away from his goals
  • London's isolation removed distractions and boosted output
  • He hit 300k subscribers in his first year of grinding

one of the hardest things i had to do was to just to leave them all in pursuit of me going to chase my own…

Mike Thurston · 47:00
#environment#discipline#ambition
Story41:30

Why his lifestyle isn't compatible with a relationship right now

Thurston reflects on a serious relationship during Dubai lockdown that felt like an intense preview of marriage. Living the pool-party, boat, travel-heavy influencer life, he concluded he couldn't be his true self while being respectful to a partner, and that she deserved better than the boyfriend experience he could offer.

  • Lockdown forced 24/7 cohabitation that felt like early marriage
  • He felt free again when he left for Ibiza
  • His party-and-travel environment clashes with commitment
  • He decided he wasn't the person to give her what she deserved

i think for in that situation she deserved better than me because i was not giving her the proper boyfriend partner experience which she deserved

Mike Thurston · 45:00
#relationships#lifestyle#self-awareness
Story68:00

Even 300 videos in, big interviews still cause nerves

Despite hundreds of videos, Thurston admits collabs with people he looks up to would rattle him, and says he'd 'poop his pants' in front of Rogan. Williamson shares his own second-ever episode with CrossFit's Dave Castro at 180 heart rate, illustrating how staged, high-pressure shoots kill natural chemistry.

  • Collabs with strangers force fake instant chemistry
  • Charismatic guests help kill the tension
  • Thurston froze doing a scripted Lewis Hamilton interview
  • Williamson interviewed Dave Castro straight after a max-effort workout

if you sat me down with rogan i'd probably poop my pants

Mike Thurston · 68:00
#podcasting#nerves#interviews

Takeaway· 3

Takeaway24:30

You're not starting from the same base point as him

Thurston is blunt that genetics and life circumstances matter: he had visible abs and muscle at age ten, dedicates his whole life to his physique, and has good genetics. He never claims his viewers can look like him, and warns that comparing yourself to him ignores vastly different starting points.

  • He showed unusual muscle development at age 10, before puberty
  • His entire life is dedicated to how he looks
  • He has never said 'you can look like me'
  • Kids, stressful jobs and poor genetics make the comparison unfair

i've never ever seen my videos you can look like me i've never said that once

Mike Thurston · 25:00
#genetics#body-image#expectations
Takeaway29:30

Beating sugar cravings by thinking one step ahead

Thurston avoids highly processed foods by imagining how he'll feel after eating them rather than in the moment. He describes sugar as being like cocaine: one sweet thing wrecks his palate and makes him crave more all day, so staying away entirely removes the craving.

  • He pre-plays the post-snack crash before eating
  • Sugar triggers a spiral of wanting more sweet food
  • Avoiding it fully kills the craving rather than fighting it
  • Food quality affects how he looks, feels and performs

i know that when i eat something really sweet i'll have like a bit of a crush and it makes me crave more of it…

Mike Thurston · 30:00
#nutrition#cravings#habits
Takeaway81:00

Filtering thousands of applicants to find your first hire

Thurston wants to build a team to scale but doesn't know how to source great people. He relays Steven Bartlett's method: after posting a job, Bartlett got 6,000 emails and filtered them purely on formatting quality first, deleting badly formatted ones before a closer read. A tightly specified, strict job post also self-selects for serious applicants.

  • Refusing to delegate caps your ability to scale
  • Bartlett filtered 6,000 applicants first by formatting quality
  • A strict, bullet-pointed brief eliminates the riffraff
  • Lifestyle-driven applicants aren't the same as capable ones

the first thing i did was just go through them like next next next and just do it based on formatting

Mike Thurston · 81:30
#hiring#delegation#scaling