Why Does No One Trust The Media Anymore? - Patrick Bet-David - #703
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⚡Myth Buster· 1
⚡Myth Buster90:30
The US and New Zealand Are the Only Countries That Let Pharma Advertise on TV
Patrick argues that mainstream media's business model is propped up by two shrinking pillars: an aging 70-75-year-old audience and pharmaceutical advertising dollars, noting that the US and New Zealand are the only countries in the world that permit direct-to-consumer pharmaceutical TV commercials — a legal quirk most viewers don't realize.
The US and New Zealand are the only two countries that allow pharmaceutical companies to advertise on TV.
Patrick claims mainstream media survival largely depends on this ad revenue plus an aging 70-75-year-old viewer base.
He argues if pharma advertising were banned, most major networks would collapse within a day.
This would force much broadcast talent to try succeeding in the harder, unscripted podcasting format instead.
“If two countries in the world that allow big Pharma companies to advertise it's us and New Zealand. Everywhere else there is no commercials.”
#media#pharma#advertising#regulation
◆Hot Take· 3
◆Hot Take106:00
How US Welfare Policy Incentivized Single Motherhood
Patrick argues that US social policy, starting with FDR's Social Security and expanded by Lyndon Johnson in 1965, created financial incentives that discouraged marriage among low-income mothers, citing a jump in children born to unmarried mothers from about 4% in 1940 to over 40% today.
In 1940, about 4% of children in America were born to unmarried mothers, according to Patrick.
That figure is now over 40%, he says.
He attributes the shift to FDR-era Social Security and 1965 Great Society programs under Lyndon Johnson.
His argument: benefit structures incentivized having children outside of marriage rather than marrying, contributing to fatherless households and downstream social problems.
“In 1940 in America, what percentage of kids were born to a single mother?... 4%. You know what that number is today? Over 40%.”
#policy#family#welfare#statistics#hot-take
◆Hot Take108:00
PBD's Take: A Taxpaying Teen Should Vote Before a Non-Taxpaying Adult
Patrick shares a controversial opinion he previously posted online — that voting rights should be tied to having worked and paid taxes rather than a fixed age of 18, arguing a 14-year-old with a job who paid $1,000 in taxes has more claim to a vote than a 28-year-old who has never worked.
Patrick would prefer a 14-15-year-old who's had a job and paid $1,000 in taxes to be able to vote over a 28-year-old who's never worked or paid taxes.
His reasoning: contribution to society via taxes should matter more than a fixed age threshold.
He says the take drew significant backlash when he posted it on YouTube.
He cites government spending, like aid to Ukraine, as an example of decisions made with taxpayer money by people who haven't necessarily contributed.
“I would much rather have somebody who's 14 and a half years old who's had a job and paid $1,000 in taxes vote than a…”
#politics#voting#hot-take#policy
◆Hot Take119:30
Why 'Burden' Is the Hardest Thing to Sell
Patrick argues that while modern content sells easy, sexy ideas like work-from-home and passive income, the willingness to carry heavy responsibility — for a company, a family, or a nation — is what actually separates great leaders, even though nobody wants to buy or market that message.
Easy-to-sell modern ideas: work-from-home, laptop entrepreneurship, passive income funnels.
Loneliness and depression are at record highs despite the popularity of these 'sexy' lifestyle sells.
Patrick argues carrying real responsibility (for a company, family, military, or nation) is a 'hard sell' nobody wants to buy.
He connects this to why great leaders take on burden: 'someone's got to do it.'
“Try selling burden. Go ahead and sell burden... responsibility isn't sexy.”
#leadership#responsibility#hot-take#business
✶Explainer· 4
✶Explainer30:30
Dominance vs. Prestige: Two Kinds of Leadership
The host explains an evolutionary-psychology framework distinguishing two forms of leadership: dominance (authoritarian, aggressive, imposed) and prestige (altruistic, earned through group consensus). He argues each suits different conditions — dominance in conflict/wartime, prestige in peacetime — and applies it to Steve Jobs's leadership shift over his career.
Dominance leadership is authoritarian and aggressive; prestige leadership is earned and spread by group consensus.
In times of conflict or crisis, dominance-style leadership tends to be more effective.
The same logic applies in business: startup phase favors one style, an established company often needs the other.
Steve Jobs is cited as someone who had to evolve his leadership style between his first and second stints at Apple.
“There's two types of leadership: one is from dominance and the other is from prestige... in times of conflict you want dominance.”
#leadership#psychology#business
✶Explainer55:00
The Pineapple Story: Why 'Hard to Get' Isn't the Same as 'Valuable'
The host shares an insight sparked by a Joe Rogan conversation — that difficulty of obtaining something is often mistaken for its actual value — illustrated through the history of the pineapple. Once it cost roughly £8,000 to bring one to Europe, making it a symbol of aristocratic wealth people would rent for display; once greenhouses made pineapples cheap, the status symbolism vanished even though the fruit hadn't changed.
Christopher Columbus first saw a pineapple in 1492 on Guadalupe and described it in his journal.
Getting a pineapple to Europe once cost roughly £8,000 in today's money — they were rented out for dinner parties and displayed atop estates.
French-invented greenhouses later made pineapples cheap, and the status symbol disappeared instantly.
Insight credited to a Joe Rogan conversation: 'just because something is hard to obtain does not mean that it is valuable.'
The host argues people should question whether they want something because it's genuinely valuable, or simply because it's difficult to obtain.
“Just because something is hard to obtain does not mean that it is valuable.”
“It was £8,000 to get one pineapple.”
#psychology#status#value#joe-rogan
✶Explainer88:30
Why Trust in Mainstream Media Hit a Record Low
Patrick lays out the trajectory of American trust in institutions, noting that public trust in both mainstream media and government peaked right before JFK's assassination at 72% and has steadily collapsed to around 27% today — explaining why podcasters now draw more eyeballs than traditional broadcasters.
Trust in both mainstream media and government peaked around 72% right before JFK died.
That trust has fallen steadily through 65%, 60%, down to about 27% today.
People increasingly trust 'amateur' podcasters over 'professional' mainstream media figures.
Patrick references the 'professionals built the Titanic, amateurs built the Ark' framing to describe the shift.
“We are at the lowest levels we've ever been for Americans trusting mainstream media and trusting the government... today 27%.”
#media#trust#podcasting#statistics
✶Explainer132:00
The 'EF Hutton' Concept: The Real Power Brokers No One Notices
Patrick explains the 'law of EF Hutton' — the idea that in any room of decision-makers, there's often one quiet, highly trusted advisor whose opinion silently determines the outcome — citing Henry Kissinger as a real-world example, and noting that the most effective versions of this figure are never publicly identified.
The 'EF Hutton' reference comes from a story about a decision-maker who always deferred to one quiet advisor before finalizing anything.
Patrick names Henry Kissinger as a real example of this kind of behind-the-scenes power broker.
He argues the most effective 'EF Huttons' are never publicly identified — 'no one ever finds out who they were.'
“The world is filled with EF Huttons... Henry Kissinger, that guy's an EF Hutton if there ever was one.”
#power#influence#henry-kissinger#explainer
❝Story· 10
❝Story02:30
Churchill's 'The Enemy Is Behind You' Lesson
The host recounts a story of Winston Churchill guiding a young MP through the House of Commons before WWII. When the MP gestures angrily at the political opposition and calls them 'the enemy,' Churchill corrects him: the opposition sits across the chamber, but the real enemy is the voice sitting behind you — inside your own head. The story introduces the idea that our biggest obstacle is often internal, not external.
The distance between the two front benches in the House of Commons equals two sword-lengths, a medieval holdover.
A young MP pointed at the opposing party and called them 'the enemy.'
Churchill replied: "That's the opposition, dear boy. The enemy is behind you."
The story symbolizes how people often externalize obstacles that are actually internal (self-doubt, the inner critic).
“That's the opposition, dear boy. The enemy is behind you.”
#churchill#psychology#self-mastery#story
❝Story21:00
Kmart vs. Walmart: Why Pure Logic Lost to Obsession
Patrick tells the story of Kmart, Walmart, Target, and Costco all launching in 1962. Kmart raised huge capital and initially dominated (250 locations to Walmart's nine within five years) but was run on pure logic and spreadsheets. Sam Walton's emotional, obsessive drive eventually won out — Kmart went bankrupt while Walton's family became worth tens of billions.
Kmart, Walmart, Target, and Costco all launched in 1962.
Five years in, Kmart had 250 locations to Walmart's nine.
Kmart was 'all logical, all numbers, spreadsheet' — and almost nobody can name its founder.
Sam Walton's book 'Made in America' (200 pages) tells how he built Walmart on obsession, not just logic.
Walton's 'poorest' child is worth $50 billion today; Kmart went out of business years ago.
“Kmart's dominating, all logical, all numbers, spreadsheet, etc. You couldn't tell me the founder of Kmart who he is.”
“Emotion brings out a different set — if we can be controlled madness, controlled emotion, it's going to go into a different gear that a…”
Patrick contrasts ordinary competitors with what he calls 'psycho competitors' — using Kobe Bryant's obsession with the players drafted ahead of him, and Michael Jordan (drafted third in 1984) versus Scottie Pippen. Despite being a great competitor, Pippen out-earned Jordan in career salary, yet Jordan's net worth dwarfs Pippen's — illustrating a difference in mindset beyond talent.
Kobe Bryant reportedly targeted, one by one, every player ranked ahead of him as a high schooler.
Michael Jordan was picked third in the 1984 draft behind Hakeem Olajuwon and Sam Bowie.
Jordan was never the NBA's highest-paid player except his final season; Pippen out-earned him in career salary.
Jordan's net worth today is roughly $3 billion; Pippen's is nowhere near that.
The differentiator isn't talent or competitiveness alone — it's an obsessive drive to dominate, not just compete.
“Michael Jordan today's worth $3 billion. Scotty Pippen is not. What's the difference? It's a very different mindset.”
Patrick recounts how Steve Jobs, after returning to Apple, made the strategic decision to abandon the idea that Microsoft was the enemy, ultimately securing a $300 million investment from Microsoft to save Apple — despite Microsoft and Apple having been fierce rivals since launching a year apart in the 1970s.
Microsoft launched in 1976, Apple in 1977 — the two were compared and pitted against each other for decades.
On returning to Apple, Jobs said the idea of Microsoft as the enemy was behind them.
Jobs secured a $300 million investment from Microsoft to help save Apple.
Bill Gates ended up far richer than Jobs, but Jobs was admired more — illustrating leadership evolution matters more than rivalry.
“The idea of thinking Microsoft is the enemy is behind us, we can't think like that anymore.”
#steve-jobs#apple#microsoft#business-history
❝Story47:00
PBD's First Date: A Restaurant Mix-Up and 101 Questions Before Engagement
Patrick tells the story of meeting his wife after knowing her for five and a half years on MySpace, their first date at PF Chang's where a waiter mistakenly thought they were a married couple about to divorce, and how on their second date he gave her a book of 101 questions to ask before getting engaged — because he was explicitly looking for a wife, not a girlfriend.
Patrick and his wife knew each other five and a half years via MySpace before their first date (Dec 29, 2007).
A waiter at PF Chang's, thinking they were an old married couple, spent 15 minutes convincing her not to 'leave' Patrick.
On the second date Patrick gave her the book '101 Questions to Ask Before You Get Engaged' by Norman Wright.
Patrick told her at 28: 'I'm not looking for a girlfriend, I'm looking for a wife.'
They spent six hours going through the questions one by one before deciding to date seriously.
“I'm not looking for a girlfriend. I'm looking for a wife. I'm 28 at the time. I know exactly what I want.”
#relationships#dating#story#marriage
❝Story94:00
Chris Cuomo: Fired by CNN, Finally 'Free' as a Podcaster
Patrick recounts having Chris Cuomo on his podcast after CNN fired him amid his brother Andrew Cuomo's scandal, and how a billionaire business partner remarked that Cuomo 'sounded different' and more likable once off mainstream media — illustrating how mainstream commentators are often constrained compared to independent podcasters.
Chris Cuomo was a top CNN host for years before being fired after his brother Governor Andrew Cuomo's scandal.
Cuomo has a pending $125 million lawsuit against CNN.
A billionaire friend of Patrick's remarked Cuomo 'sounded different' — more likable — once off mainstream media.
Cuomo now runs his own independent show and brand ('free agent').
“The moment Chris Cuomo was free and he didn't give a damn, he just kind of told you what he was going through — whether…”
#media#chris-cuomo#cnn#podcasting
❝Story102:00
Why the Vanderbilts Lost Their Fortune in One Generation But the Medicis Kept Theirs
Patrick discusses researching multigenerational wealth to decide how to raise his own kids, contrasting the Vanderbilt family — whose fortune was reportedly gone within a generation — with the Medici and Rockefeller families who preserved wealth across many generations through deliberate structure and values.
The Vanderbilt fortune reportedly lasted only one generation.
Anderson Cooper, a Vanderbilt descendant, has said he was told not to expect a trust fund and had to make his own money.
The Medici family preserved wealth across five to seven generations through deliberate family structure.
The Rockefeller family still retains significant wealth today.
High-end estate planners interview a family's children directly, without parents present, to set expectations around inheritance.
“You look at the Medici family... five, six, seven generations, what did they do differently? You look at Rockefeller, still has the money.”
David Goggins Smoke-Jumps for ~$12/Hour Despite Six-Figure Speaking Fees
The host recounts a conversation with David Goggins, who despite commanding huge speaking fees, chooses to volunteer as a wildfire smoke jumper — parachuting into remote wildfires and living on-site for up to a week for roughly $9-12 an hour — as a deliberate rejection of success making him soft.
Smoke jumping involves parachuting into remote wildfires with equipment and water-hose gear to fight the fire on-site.
Firefighters can be out in the field for up to a week at a time.
Goggins reportedly earns roughly $9-12/hour doing this despite being able to command far more for speaking gigs.
Goggins told the host he does it because he sees success making people soft 'way too much' and wants to avoid that himself.
“He makes it's either $9 or $12 an hour that he makes for doing this smoke jumping.”
#david-goggins#discipline#story#success
❝Story121:00
Why Being Number Two Can Pay More Than Being Number One
Patrick recounts a lesson from his business partner Tom Ellsworth, who attended the famous joint Steve Jobs/Bill Gates interview in Silicon Valley, and told Patrick it took him 50 years to realize he made more money as the number-two-through-six guy than he ever did as the number-one guy — because the top spot carries a burden the others don't.
Tom Ellsworth attended the famous last joint interview of Steve Jobs and Bill Gates in Silicon Valley.
Ellsworth told Patrick it took him 50 years to realize he made less money as 'the number one guy' than as 'number two through number six.'
The reasoning: the 'number one' role carries burdens — selling the dream, absorbing financial risk, projecting calm during crises — that lower-ranked leaders don't carry.
“It took me 50 years to realize I don't make a lot of money when I'm the number one guy. The most money I ever…”
#leadership#business#story#wealth
❝Story126:30
'I Fancied Myself a God': Soros's Quote and an 'Apex Predator' Encounter
Discussing who really holds power in the world, Patrick cites a decades-old LA Times interview in which George Soros reportedly said he 'always fancied myself with being a god,' while the host shares a secondhand story from a friend who met an extremely powerful, resourced individual who described themselves as an 'apex predator' indifferent to their own species as prey — both used to illustrate how unchecked power and resources can combine dangerously.
Patrick cites an LA Times interview (20-plus years old) in which George Soros reportedly said 'I always fancied myself with being a god.'
Soros allegedly added that it was no longer just a dream — it became a reality.
The host recounts a friend's secondhand story about meeting someone who described themselves as an 'apex predator' who doesn't care about 'prey,' even other humans.
Both anecdotes are offered as evidence that a small number of extremely powerful, resourced people may operate with a mindset detached from normal consequences.
“I always fancied myself with being a god.”
“Apex predators don't care about prey, even though the prey that he was referring to is still his own species.”
#power#george-soros#story#elites
?Q&A· 1
?Q&A09:00
Alex Hormozi's Warning: Don't Run on Pain as Fuel for More Than 20 Years
The host describes being naturally conflict-averse and previously bowing out of confrontation to keep the peace, until he realized he was leaving motivation on the table. A conversation with Alex Hormozi reframed pain and resentment as a legitimate but time-limited fuel source — useful for a season, dangerous if relied on for decades.
Host is naturally averse to conflict and used to opt for peace over confrontation.
Realized hate/fear/scarcity is 'unbelievably potent' fuel, especially in short competitive bursts.
Alex Hormozi told him to use what he has but not for too long — 10, 15, 20 years — or risk a breakdown, dependency, or addiction.
Becoming a target for others' envy made him realize people root for underdogs but tear down those at the top.
“A lot of people have more pain than they do pleasure. Don't use it for too long — 10, 15, 20 years — that's how…”
#motivation#psychology#alex-hormozi#burnout
✦Tool· 2
✦Tool28:30
Book Rec: Churchill's Ministry of Ungentlemanly Warfare
The host recommends a book about a secret WWII unit Churchill created — a 'crack squad of eccentric weirdos' who pioneered guerrilla tactics, the Limpet mine, and the SAS's predecessor, after Churchill decided Britain would play dirty to win the war despite the era's gentlemanly-conduct norms.
Before WWII, British norms considered guerrilla tactics 'ungentlemanly' in war.
Churchill personally legitimized dirty tactics, saying they would do whatever it took to win.
The unit invented the Limpet mine (a magnetic underwater explosive) and a predecessor to the SAS.
Other members developed disguises and sabotage tactics against German infrastructure.
“This is a phenomenal book that everybody can go and read... before the Second World War it was considered ungentlemanly to use guerrilla-style tactics.”
#books#churchill#wwii#history
✦Tool118:30
Book Rec: Andy Grove's Only the Paranoid Survive
Patrick recommends Andy Grove's business classic, noting that Grove — the Hungarian-born CEO who reportedly grew Intel 100% year-over-year for a decade — built the book's entire thesis around productive paranoia as a competitive advantage.
Andy Grove led Intel and reportedly grew the company 100% per year for a decade, an unheard-of feat.
The book's title and thesis is 'Only the Paranoid Survive.'
Patrick and the host agree paranoia can function as a real performance enhancer — heightened attention to detail and threats.
“You know what the book's title is? Only the Paranoid Survive.”