Why Does The Modern World Make No Sense? - Tom Segura - #901
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⚡Myth Buster· 2
⚡Myth Buster08:30
GLP-1 Drugs Are Quietly Eating Your Muscle, Not Just Your Fat
Segura explains that GLP-1 weight loss drugs (Ozempic-style injections) cause people to lose a much higher proportion of lean muscle mass than they realize — sometimes 66% of a 10-pound loss. He argues the fix isn't avoiding the drugs necessarily, but pairing any weight loss method with resistance training and adequate protein so the loss is fat, not muscle.
Studies show people on GLP-1 drugs can lose 66% lean mass in a 10-pound weight loss
Retaining lean mass is what actually matters for health, longevity, and strength
Most of the muscle-loss problem can be mitigated by resistance training during weight loss
The real issue: people take the injection, suppress appetite, but never build a fitness routine
“They're losing 66% in a 10 pound loss, they're losing 66% of that is lean mass which is not what you want.”
“The problem is that people who don't have a health and fitness routine are taking an injection and suppressing their appetite and then losing weight…”
#glp-1#ozempic#weight-loss#muscle-mass#fitness
⚡Myth Buster129:00
Guilt Isn't About Right and Wrong — It's About Getting Caught
Williamson shares an evolutionary psychology idea that reframed his understanding of guilt: the intensity of guilt we feel is proportional to how likely we think we are to get caught, not to the actual severity of the act. Both agree this matches lived experience — a small act done in total privacy barely registers, while the same act done in front of witnesses feels much worse.
Guilt functions as an early-warning system tied to perceived risk of discovery, not moral severity
Example: littering unseen at night feels far less guilty than littering in front of a family
Framed as a posited evolutionary psychology theory, not a directly proven law
Segura connects it to why people without empathy/guilt (e.g. certain criminals) don't show this signal at all
“Our level of guilt is directly proportional to the likelihood that we think that we're going to get caught.”
#guilt#psychology#evolutionary-psychology
◆Hot Take· 3
◆Hot Take15:00
"The Fat Acceptance Movement Was All a Scam" — Segura on Ozempic Hypocrisy
Segura argues that widespread Ozempic use among Hollywood attendees at the Golden Globes exposed body positivity as insincere — the moment an easy way to lose weight appeared, the same people who preached full acceptance of any body size quietly used the drug. He extends this into a broader critique using Isaiah Berlin's "inner citadel" idea: people who can't achieve a goal retreat into declaring the goal itself illegitimate.
A Free Press writer noted the Golden Globes crowd's leanness undercut fat acceptance messaging
Segura: "the moment that you had an easy route out of being overweight, body positivity went out the window"
Cites Isaiah Berlin's 'inner citadel': if you can't get what you want, you teach yourself to want what you can get
Applies the same logic to monogamy, weight, and career struggles as rationalized failures
“The moment that you had an easy rout out of being overweight, body positivity went out of the window.”
“There's this idea from Isaiah Berlin called the inner citadel — if you can't get what you want you have to teach yourself to want…”
Everyone in Hollywood Is Juicing — Nobody Will Admit It
Segura says steroid use is essentially universal among jacked celebrities and fitness influencers, but it remains the one taboo subject nobody in Hollywood will discuss openly, even as it's become normalized elsewhere in fitness culture. He notes that even injecting doesn't make results automatic — people still have to train hard.
Segura: even actors with 'naturally lean' reputations are often 'on it too'
Fitness influencers are increasingly open about steroid use, but Hollywood stays silent
Using gear alone without training still gives unimpressive results
Alex Jones is cited as an example of visible hard work (be crawls, tire flips) despite public 'ozempic' accusations
“They're all on it. They just never want to talk about it.”
“It's almost like the most taboo thing you can bring up for some of these guys, even though it's so obvious and out in the…”
#steroids#hollywood#fitness#celebrity
◆Hot Take53:00
Trump as an "Ideological Rorschach Test"
Segura argues Trump is unusually transparent about who he is — with a clear public record of actions and statements — yet different people project wildly opposing narratives onto the same behavior, seeing him either as a savior or a con man. He frames this as revealing more about the observer than about Trump himself.
Segura: Trump 'doesn't put up this disguise' and 'reads so clearly' as himself
Same actions get read as either saving the country or destroying it, depending on the viewer
Framed as an 'ideological Rorschach test' — what people see reflects their own lens
Segura also describes deliberately limiting his news consumption to avoid emotional 'fan' investment in politics
“It's like an ideological Rorschach test. Look at the tell — is it a bunny rabbit, butterfly, sunrise? What is it? And some people see…”
“I cannot emotionally invest in Trump news like I did the first time, because it just frankly takes up too much energy and too much…”
#trump#politics#media#hot-take
✶Explainer· 7
✶Explainer27:00
Algorithms Don't Just Predict You — They Reshape You to Be More Predictable
Williamson relays a claim from AI textbook author Stuart Russell: recommendation algorithms improve prediction accuracy two ways — by serving more clickable content, and by nudging users' preferences toward the political/ideological fringes, since extreme viewpoints are far easier to predict than moderate ones. This is framed as a bidirectional, largely unrecognized mechanism.
Stuart Russell (AI textbook author) identifies two algorithm strategies: serve better content, or nudge preferences
People at ideological extremes (far right/left) are much easier to predict than people in the middle
This creates an incentive for platforms to push users toward the fringes over time
Segura connects this to his own experience of 'not interested' clicks reshaping his feed
“The other one is to nudge your preferences so that you become easier to predict.”
“How much easier is it to predict what somebody will or will not click on than by pushing them out to the fringe of any…”
#algorithms#social-media#psychology#ai
✶Explainer39:30
Sexlessness Among Young Adults Has Roughly Doubled in a Decade
Williamson cites new National Survey of Family Growth data showing sharp rises in sexlessness among 22-34 year-olds: virginity rates, no-sex-in-3-months rates, and related measures have all climbed substantially since 2013, more steeply for men than women. The two discuss it as a marker of a broader loneliness epidemic.
10% of young men and 7% of young women aged 22-34 report still being virgins
24% of men 22-24 hadn't had sex in the past year in 2022, up from 9% in 2013
35% of men and 31% of women reported no sex in the last 3 months, both roughly up 15 points
Segura: loneliness is far more widespread than people who have friends/relationships realize
“So many people are lonely. It's — I'm not surprised by it.”
#loneliness#dating#statistics#gen-z
✶Explainer82:30
The Midwit Meme: Why Overcomplicating Things Is the Real Trap
Segura and Williamson dissect the 'midwit meme' (a bell curve where the low-IQ and high-IQ figures arrive at the same simple conclusion while the mid-IQ figure overcomplicates it), arguing the practical lesson is that almost nobody can genuinely be the 'guy on the right' (the sage) — the achievable goal is 'cultivated stupidity,' consciously choosing the simple, boring, repetitive path instead of over-engineering it. They tie this to elite athletes (Chinese weightlifters, Matt Fraser) who succeed by embracing boring fundamentals without resistance.
Every 'guy in the middle' is really a 'guy on the left' trying and failing to be the guy on the right
The only realistic self-improvement move is toward 'cultivated stupidity' — simple, unglamorous consistency
Referenced from Atomic Habits: Chinese weightlifting world champions differ from the elite pack by doing boring work without complaint
Matt Fraser (5x CrossFit Games champion) reportedly re-memorized his entire engineering textbook if he got one word wrong, showing extreme discipline paired with simple execution
“Every guy in the middle is a guy on the left trying to be the guy on the right. You can't be the guy on…”
“Cultivated stupidity is the best you can hope for if you're not gifted with it.”
#mindset#midwit-meme#psychology#discipline
✶Explainer99:30
Why Competent People Get Read as Cold, and Incompetent People as Warm
Williamson shares research showing people who are more competent are perceived as colder regardless of actual friendliness, while less competent people are seen as warmer regardless of how warm they really are. He and Segura reason this is a self-protective instinct: highly capable people trigger subconscious wariness ('what could this person do to me?'), while non-threatening, error-prone people put people at ease.
Research finding: perceived competence and perceived warmth are inversely correlated, independent of reality
Explained as evolutionary threat-assessment: intelligence signals capacity for deception or manipulation
The 'lovable oaf' archetype earns automatic trust because there's 'nothing going on behind the eyes' to fear
Connected to why people project selfishness onto anyone who achieved major success (e.g. weight loss, wealth)
“People who are more competent are seen as colder regardless of how friendly they are, and people who are more incompetent are seen as more…”
“Somebody who's highly intelligent, part of your brain just goes: what's this person capable of doing to me?”
#psychology#social-perception#research
✶Explainer127:00
Why Innocent People Can 'Act Guilty' Under Interrogation
Williamson introduces the Keynesian beauty contest concept — where you're rewarded for guessing what others will think, not your own honest opinion — and applies it to why both guilty and innocent people under public scrutiny can appear equally unnatural: they're mentally simulating what observers expect an innocent (or guilty) person to look like, which corrupts their natural behavior.
Keynesian beauty contest: predicting what others will judge, rather than judging directly yourself
Applied to suspects/grieving parents: they're modeling 'what does innocent look like to them?' instead of just being themselves
This meta-level processing makes both guilty and innocent people look similarly 'off' under scrutiny
Compared to nervous stand-up comedians who look worse specifically because they're trying to look confident
“You're trying to be the version of me that I think they would want to see, and by doing that I'm getting in the way…”
"Unteachable Lessons" — Why You Only Learn Money Won't Make You Happy By Earning It
Williamson describes reading Bill Perkins' 'Die With Zero' and then experiencing its lesson firsthand by wake surfing with the author, illustrating the difference between '2D lessons' (told to you) and '3D lessons' (experienced). Segura extends this into a broader category of 'unteachable lessons' — like money not buying fulfillment, or chasing unavailable people — that people must painfully relearn for themselves regardless of being warned.
Concept: '2D lessons' are told/read; '3D lessons' are experienced firsthand and land far deeper
Williamson read Bill Perkins' Die With Zero, then experienced the book's point by wake surfing with him
Segura's examples of unteachable lessons: 'money won't make you fulfilled' and chasing 'the slightly unavailable pretty hot girl'
Hard-won lessons are received defensively, even negatively, when someone tries to pass them on directly
“There's a category, a very unique category of lessons — I call them unteachable lessons.”
“Money won't make you feel fulfilled — like no one wants to hear that.”
#life-lessons#wisdom#money#book
✶Explainer33:30
Why Gen Z Is Ditching Alcohol — and Nightclubs Are Dying Because of Phones
Segura and Williamson discuss the sharp decline in Gen Z drinking (down to around 20% regularly drinking), attributing it to drinking being seen as an uncool 'what my parents did' behavior and greater awareness of alcohol's downsides, alongside more socially accepted alternatives like edibles and micro-dosing. Williamson adds that the UK is losing a nightclub a week, which a friend in the industry attributes to fear of being filmed and permanently 'concretized' online.
Roughly only 20% of Gen Z now drinks regularly, per discussion
Daily/near-daily marijuana use in the US has reportedly overtaken daily/near-daily alcohol use
UK nightlife industry losing roughly one nightclub per week
Cited cause: smartphones mean embarrassing moments are permanently recorded, unlike pre-2010s nightlife culture
“There's more daily uses in the US of weed now than there are of alcohol.”
“The UK is losing a nightclub a week... he said smartphones, man. Back in the day you could be as loose as you wanted.”
#gen-z#alcohol#nightlife#culture
❝Story· 5
❝Story12:00
How Tom Segura Lost 20 Pounds by Eating More (Not Less)
Ahead of a shoot, Segura considered a GLP-1 drug but a nutritionist told him he simply wasn't eating enough. He overhauled his diet to hit roughly 200g of protein a day (four eggs, protein shakes, 10-16oz of lean meat per meal) and increased training, dropping 20 pounds and looking leaner than dieting had ever achieved.
He was estimating ~40g of protein a day before, unintentionally
Nutritionist's advice was to eat more of the right foods, not less overall
Dropped ~20 pounds in 100 days while eating far more food than before
Nobody hits 200g of protein a day by accident — it has to be deliberate
“Nobody sleepwalks into 200g of protein. Nobody does it. It's impossible. It's deliberate.”
#nutrition#protein#weight-loss#tom-segura
❝Story48:00
The $50 Million Gaza Condoms Story — Money Laundering or Improvised Weapons?
Discussing a viral headline about $50 million earmarked to fund condoms for Gaza, Segura lays out the two leading theories circulating online: it was a money-laundering vehicle, or the condoms were meant to be filled with refrigerant gas and rigged into improvised explosive devices. The two riff on how resourceful people can weaponize mundane objects.
DOGE/Office of Management flagged the $50 million Gaza condom allocation as a story
Theory 1: the funding was a money-laundering scheme
Theory 2: condoms were used to float and drop improvised incendiary/explosive devices
Segura compares it to prison-improvised weapons made from mundane objects
“It's dark in that — if the explanation is 'on paper we can't send you weapons, but you guys just have this, you know what…”
#news#conspiracy#politics#gaza
❝Story74:30
The Friend Who Beat Stage 4 Cancer by Refusing to Believe He Could Lose
Segura recounts his closest high school friend being diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer after a wife noticed his labored breathing on a car ride home. Despite losing 80 pounds and going bald from chemo, the friend remained confidently certain he'd beat it and even made summer plans mid-treatment. He's now been in remission for 7+ years and is considered a medical outlier — yet still smokes, dips, and eats poorly.
Diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer after his wife insisted on an ER visit for labored breathing
Traveled from Florida to Indianapolis for specialist treatment, lost 80 pounds during chemo
Doctors and family considered his recovery a near-miracle in that cancer specialty
Post-recovery, he still smokes, dips, and doesn't take particularly good care of himself
“I think you're dumb enough to think you can do this.”
“There's just a correlation right to the thing that you narrowly beat and what you're doing every day.”
#cancer#mindset#story#health
❝Story79:00
Segura's Dad Ate a McMuffin the Day After Getting an Emergency Heart Stent
Segura's father had 98% blockage in an artery discovered after his mom insisted on an ER visit due to labored breathing (echoing the cancer friend's story). Shortly after receiving an emergency stent, Segura called him only to find he was eating a McMuffin at McDonald's, seemingly unmoved by the near-death warning.
Father had 98% arterial blockage, requiring an emergency stent
Discovered after Segura's mom noticed his heavy breathing, same pattern as his cancer friend
Shortly after the procedure, found him eating a McMuffin without behavior change
Segura frames both stories as evidence some people don't change even after a near-fatal wake-up call
“Where are you? I'm at McDonald's. Didn't you just get an emergency stent put in for your clogged arteries? Yeah, I know. And I'm just…”
#health#story#family#heart-disease
❝Story124:30
The True Crime Doc That Broke Segura's Instinct for Reading Guilt
Segura describes watching the docuseries American Nightmare, where a man's interrogation-footage account of a home invasion and kidnapping initially reads as obviously deceptive — until later episodes reveal both he and his girlfriend were telling the truth the entire time. He says it was the first time his instinct for reading truthful versus deceptive behavior was completely wrong.
In episode one, the man's demeanor in interrogation footage reads as clearly dishonest to Segura and the police
By the end, both the man and his girlfriend are revealed to have been telling the truth all along
Segura says it fundamentally challenged his confidence in reading guilt from behavior
Contrasted with the Scott Peterson interrogation footage, where his coldness read as authentically suspicious
“I know how you're supposed to behave in a truthful way, and this is not that. And then you're like, wait a minute — this…”
#true-crime#psychology#documentary
?Q&A· 1
?Q&A41:30
Why a Generation of Young Men Never Learned to Approach Women
Segura describes hearing from a friend that his college-age daughter grew up seeing boys as either predators or absent — never as people who approach or engage. He connects this to the #MeToo era coinciding with today's college-age men's adolescence, arguing overly blunt messaging like 'don't be pushy' fails because the men who need to hear it ignore it, while well-intentioned men over-internalize it into total withdrawal.
A friend's daughter grew up experiencing zero male romantic attention or approach behavior in school
#MeToo hit right as many current college-age men were entering adolescence, making them fearful of interacting
Segura: the guys who need the 'don't be pushy' message most won't take heed; the ones who should be encouraged over-comply
Compared to gun laws: strict rules deter the compliant, not the determined
“The huge problem with telling men don't be pushy is that the guys who need to hear it the most aren't going to take heed.”
#dating#metoo#gender#young-men
✦Tool· 1
✦Tool24:15
Instagram Now Lets You Fully Reset Your Recommendation Algorithm
Instagram released a feature allowing users to completely wipe their algorithm and start fresh, requiring users to accept terms via a 'want to start a fresh?' prompt in-app. Segura and Williamson discuss it as a chance to purge years of accumulated junk (Segura jokes his feed is workplace accidents, barbecue recipes, and Italian women's feet).
Feature released the week of this recording, found in-app under a 'start over' prompt
Requires accepting terms and conditions before it wipes your feed history
Discussed as a way to escape algorithmic feedback loops built over a decade
“You can completely wipe your Instagram algorithm and start basically a fresh.”
#instagram#algorithm#social-media#tool
▲Takeaway· 1
▲Takeaway65:00
Calling Yourself "A Piece of Sh*t" Doesn't Actually Motivate You
Segura describes moving away from using self-criticism as a motivational tool, arguing that the suffering itself becomes a toxic, short-lived fuel rather than a real driver of action. He now treats the self-loathing voice as background noise to observe and dismiss, going straight to taking action (writing, training, getting on stage) instead of whipping himself into it first.
Segura calls self-flagellation 'a toxic fuel that doesn't last very long'
The longer you stay productive, the less that internal critical voice shows up
He treats the voice as 'a nuisance,' 'an obstacle,' and 'not your friend' rather than truth
His advice to young artists: the way out of feeling bad is by doing the thing, not waiting to feel ready
“The older you get, the more you just realize the only solution for this feeling is just action.”
“You're not going to achieve any of that by sitting here and feeling bad about yourself. The way out of this is by doing the…”