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61 frameworks
The Opinion-as-Norm Campaign Lens
Decode opinions as bids to reward allies and lower rivals' status
Luck Surface Area
Create more motion and contribution so useful chance has more places to land
Make It Easy
Change behavior by removing friction, not by adding motivation
Getting to 'That's Right'
Summarize the other side's view until they say 'that's right'
The Absence-Presence Dynamic
Alternate scarcity and visibility so people crave your presence
The Fresh Start Effect
Time your ask to the moments people feel like a new person
Key Person of Influence
Make the founder the visible face who pitches, publishes, and builds the product ecosystem
Pre-Frame, Reframe, Deframe
Set the meaning of an experience before it happens, because prevention beats correction
The Four Ways to Say No
Say no with escalating firmness so no one gets punched in the face
The Noticeable Difference Flywheel
Make each opportunity visibly different so one crowd recruits the next
The 'But You Are Free' Principle
Remind people they can say no and, paradoxically, more of them say yes
The FEAR Brainwashing Process
The four-stage focus-emotion-agitation-repetition cycle that drives real brainwashing
The Foot-in-the-Door Technique
Win a tiny yes first, then the big ask rides on their need to stay consistent
The Four Hooks of Behavioral Addiction
Spot the four design hooks that make technology irresistible
The Illusion of Control
Offer even a meaningless choice to make people value the outcome
The Influence Strategy (Influence MOT)
Build a personal brand on purpose with a six-step influence build-out
The Three Routes to Status: Dominance, Virtue, Success
Diagnose how any group awards status and play the sustainable route
The Trust Battery
Treat every relationship as a battery that each interaction charges or drains
Two-Tier Mentorship
Study your idols from afar and aim your real asks two levels lower
Status, Desire and Fun
Deliver all three of what women want, or you're not a romantic option
The Messenger Effect
Who delivers the message can matter as much as the message itself
Answering the Bid
Relationships live or die on small daily bids for attention, not grand gestures
Loss-Frame Messaging
Frame the same number as a loss avoided, not a gain won
Respond to an Insult With Silence
Let the ugly words fall, then ask them to say it again
The Three-Part Flirting Framework
Diagnose flirting failures as interest, standards, or sexual tension
Market Yourself Authentically (Product plus Marketing)
Build a life worth wanting, then learn to talk about it so women can see it
Resistance-Reducing Verb Choice
Swap the loaded verb for the traction verb to move a resistant person forward
The Attraction Equation
Break lasting attraction into four buildable components you can actually work on
The Five Types of Charisma
Pick the charisma style that fits you instead of faking one that doesn't
Win the Mind, Not the Body
Change what they want instead of forcing what they do
Credibility by Association
Borrow the trust of someone who already has profile by being seen alongside them
Leaps of Faith
Trust first on purpose — social risk-taking is how you win at connection
Reputation Is the Cornerstone of Power
Build one consistent reputation, guard credibility, exploit rivals' inconsistencies
Use Absence to Increase Respect
Withdraw strategically to create scarcity, mystery and renewed demand for your presence
Copy-Flatter-Conform
The instinctive strategy humans use to rise toward high-status people
Cunningham's Law
To get the right answer online, post the wrong answer instead of a question
Make Yourself Easy to Interface With
Build a body of work and give relentlessly so top people seek you out
Mimetic Status Inversion
Change behaviour by flipping what counts as high status, not by moralising
Reframe the Incentive as a Reward
Same price, different story — lead with the discount, never the surcharge
The Intentional Misstatement
Elicit facts without asking a single question by stating something wrong on purpose
The PCP Formula (Perception, Context, Permission)
Change what someone perceives, then the context, and the behavior becomes automatic
The Polarize-and-Volume Dating Strategy
Lean into an extreme version of yourself, then ask out far more people than feels comfortable
Sexual Escalation by Drip-Feed
Lace attraction triggers through the whole interaction, not a late switch
The Four Charming Qualities
Make a man want to give by leading with charm, not take-energy
Three Kinds of Reward
Toggle between reward, judicious punishment, and a dangled future reward to motivate people well
Asymmetry Targeting
Find the 5% doing 90% of the work and put every resource there
First-Weeks Precedent Setting
Set the standard sky-high in a relationship's opening weeks so it holds for the long run
Make Your Signal Look Like a Cue
Win status by hiding that you want it — turn signals into unintended cues
One Chapter Ahead
Coach the person you were a year ago and you're the expert
The Eight Mile Approach
Disarm your opponent by surfacing your own weaknesses before they can
The Hendersonian News Cycle
Spot the four-stage arc every narrative uses to deny, then reverse, a problem
Good Guy vs Nice Guy Polarity
Blend opposite traits so you're not one-dimensional
Shift Culture Through Story, Not Just Academia
Make an abstract risk mainstream by embedding it in vivid fiction
The 5-to-7 Interaction Reset
Change a stuck relationship pattern by changing your own move and holding it for five to seven exchanges.
The Charlatan Playbook
How grifters colonise any field that is gatekept, hard to understand, and full of desperate need.
Authentic Creator Differentiation
Stand out in a saturated feed by picking a lever and being radically yourself
Strategic Venting
Damage a rival's reputation without damaging your own
Play The Game To Earn The Message
Satisfy the platform's rules first, then spend the attention you earn on what matters.
The Costly Signal Test
Judge whether a belief is genuine by what it actually costs the person holding it
The Domain of Competence
Win attention by displaying high value in a game everyone can score
Call Out the Elephant
Name your youth first, then state your worth and demand equal respect